Tuesday, April 06, 2010
The Real Hope of the Resurrection
Friday, March 26, 2010
Killing the Religious Idol
Monday, March 22, 2010
Types & Symptoms of Religious Idolatry
- Rightness of Doctrine. This is when you love your particular theological system or tradition more than Jesus.
- Spiritual Gifts. This is when your faith is more fixed on experience and manifestations of spiritual gifts more than it is fixed on Jesus.
- Ministry Success. This is when your worth and value is more placed in program attendance, quality of production, number of decisions, or ministries started or overseen than in Jesus.
- Leadership. This is when your allegiance is more with a particular pastor, author, or theologian that Jesus.
- Moral Living. This is when your acceptance is based on your religious activity or general morality (particularly in avoiding the "wrong" places, people, and activities) than in Jesus.
- Unresolvable guilt…always letting God or yourself down
- Condemned…live in light of punishment
- Need to stay busy…rest=not earning your keep
- Defensive…forced to justify positions or actions
- Angered easily…too much pressure on you, thin skin
- Lack of assurance if God loves you… “what if’s” and “buts" fill your speech
- Dry prayer life…no motivation or connection
- Dry scripture reading…don’t want to; text is lifeless; full of rules
- No joy (or fake joy)…Christianity is a chore, not a blessing
- Control freak…No freedom; Christianity has enslaved you, not freed you
Thursday, February 04, 2010
Marriage & Sex
- Sex enriches a marriage. It's one of the main things that makes a marriage enjoyable. The frequency of spouses' sexual intimacy directly correlates to their overall marital health.
- Sex encourages spiritual growth. At it's root, sex is a physical expression of a spiritual need for union. And (ideally) your spouse was your brother or sister in Christ before he/she was your spouse. So sexual intimacy actually helps your spouse grow spiritually.
- Sex strengthens oneness. Sexual intimacy is an illustration - a literal physical reminder - of the emotional & spiritual oneness that a couple has.
- Sex allows spouses to enjoy each other. Sex feels good because God designed it to be so! He wants married couples to enjoy each other.
- Sex glorifies a marriage. Sex is supposed to be a team sport. It is supposed to love, serve, and bring pleasure to another, not just yourself. Sex celebrates the relationship.
- Both spouses agree to it. This should be a harmonious decision. Abstaining because of conflict, selfishness, or manipulation is sin.
- It should be for a limited time. Don't leave it open-ended, make a plan for how long it will last.
- Devote to prayer during the time of abstaining. Like fasting from anything else, the time needs to be used for spiritual growth, seeking direction & wisdom, combating selfishness, and learning to more fully to depend on God and united with Him.
- Come together again. Plan the reunion! Celebrate your love & growth!
Monday, February 01, 2010
Biblical Marriage
- It is not good to be alone (unmarried) (Genesis 2:18)
- We are made to marry (Matthew 19:4-6)
- Marriage is honorable (Hebrews 13:4)
- Prohibiting marriage is demonic (1 Timothy 4:1-3)
- Finding a wife is finding a good thing (Proverbs 18:22)
- Married people make the most ideal leaders (1 Timothy 3:1-12)
- Marriage is to be God-centered. Marriage should not be centered on a spouse, a child, or a perceived need (comfort, sexual fulfillment, possessions, lifestyle).
- Marriage is not about our happiness, but is for our holiness. No other relationship will confront selfishness and idolatry like marriage does. God's intention is for the marriage relationship to make his followers more holy and like His Son Jesus.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
The Benefits of Gospel Relationships
- Demonic adversity - Acts 19:11-16
- Cultural idols - Acts 19:23-41
- Religious adversity - Acts 20:19
- Personal idols - Acts 20:29-30
- "Put him at ease" - it's hard to be a pastor or leader, you're always 'on' and have expectations
- "Let no one despise him" - pastors & leaders often have to say hard things to people for their good that aren't always received well
- "Help him on his way in peace" - ministry is never done, and it's difficult to find contentment in a pastor's/leader's work
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Practicing Gospel Relationships
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
What are Gospel Relationships?
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Haiti Earthquake Relief
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
"Be Generous" Wordle

Monday, January 11, 2010
Greed, Generosity, & the Gospel
Monday, January 04, 2010
Transforming in 2010
- View of Self. One of the biggest lies of our pop-psychology happy culture is the need for greater "self-esteem" or "self-worth." This is totally unbiblical and destructive. Left to myself, I'm sinful - totally and completely sinful. Why would I want that greater in my life? As a Christian, what I need is greater "Christ-esteem." Colossians 3:3-4 clearly state that as a Christian, my life is hidden in Jesus and that He is my life. I need "me" to continue to die and for Jesus to live more and more. Only by embracing this truth will my thoughts, actions, words, and attitudes by changed.
- View of Others. One thing I need to get clear as well (in light of the first point) is to view others properly, especially other Christians. Their lives are Christ as well, and so according to 2 Corinthians 5:16, I must not regard them according to their flesh. This allows me to be free to love, forgive, and pray for other Christians fully confident that the Holy Spirit within them will convict and lead them to truth, and I get to enjoy encouraging them. Now, conversely this also means to view non-Christians as non-Christians and not expect Christian attitudes, affections, or actions from them. I get to freely love them as well and extend to them the grace & mercy they need to experience.
- View of Circumstances. Colossians 3:2 says to set our minds on things above. I cannot allow my present situation, circumstances, or earthly heartaches to determine how I react. Tim Lane and Paul Tripp, in their book "How People Change" write, 'There is always something bigger than the heartache of the moment." They are talking about the eternal promises of God embodied and given to us in the gospel. This trumps everything and transforms my response to every circumstance in my life.
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
Progressing in Godliness
- Do I think more about Jesus today than I did a six months or a year ago?
- Am I trying to filter everything through the lens of the gospel?
- Do I enjoy serving other people more today?
- Do I cheerfully give?
- Am I more willing to be flexible with my time so I can serve others?
- Am I quicker to repent when I sin?
- Am I quicker to forgive when I'm sinned against?
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
Delta's Upcoming Men's Retreat
Friday, October 02, 2009
Cleaning Up a Jacked Up Church Preview
When we think of the early church in the first century, we usually get these warm fuzzy feelings about community, love, how they shared their stuff, how God pulled off crazy miracles, and how people came to know Jesus by the thousands.
Not Corinth. Corinth was a jacked up church.
The church in Corinth was small, maybe 50ish people. And this small community was marked by division, by being more influenced by culture than influencing culture, by being proud of their sexual sin, by chaotic worship gatherings, by drunkenness at communion, by greed, and by bringing lawsuits against each other. So, God speaks through Paul, who planted the church, to speak the gospel into the church to clean up the mess the church was in.
No matter where you’re at spiritually: a skeptic, an investigator, a new believer, or a seasoned Christ-follower, 1st Corinthians is a book that will speak deeply into your life. Because the truth is, we’re all jacked up and need Jesus to clean us up.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Movement Recap
- "We are the church." This was the umbrella statement for the whole series. Like 1 Peter 2:9 and Acts 2:42-47 reveal to us, "church" is an identity, not a destination.
- The "Upward" Movement. "The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever." This is the famous first confession of the Westminster Confession of Faith, and describes Delta's first movement: Glorifying God. John 17:1-5 shows us that glorifying God is God's main concern about Himself, and was Jesus' main concern while on earth. Everything about our lives personally and corporately must be filtered with God getting glory, and not us. This is most publically seen in our weekly Worship Gatherings.
- The "Amongst" Movement. "True community is created, defined and driven by the Gospel." This is the key phrase for Delta's second movement: gospel communities. We unpacked how Delta is in fact a "community of communities." The Community Groups of Delta are practically people's "immediate church", for in those environments is where everyday care, encouragement, connection, growth, learning, discipline, and mission happen. John 17:6-19 show us Jesus' plan for the community that He created.
- The "Outward" Movement. "Ordinary life lived with gospel intentionality." When we talk about the third movement - engaging culture - we talking about living missionally. And this mean not trying hard to be "cool" or "hip" but simply going about your regular everyday activities with purpose - to bring those outside of your gospel community inside your gospel community. Jesus clearly laid out his desire for this to happen in John 17:18-26. And this is not to be done solo, but in community - Jesus never once in his prayer in John 17 prayed for an individual, but always for community; for it is in community that mission is most strong.
